Karma's a Bitch, Idn't it??
Ahhhhhhh, Sweet Karma. Oh how I love thee. Let me count the ways.
Okay, I will get real... sorry, 'bout that.
I think my sister and my ex finally broke up. He is finally getting his own apartment (he was taking my kiddos over to my sister's every weekened when he had them). From what the kids say, my sister and my ex fight ALL OF THE TIME.... and now I have heard him talking of another girl he met at his new job. Could it be? Did the soulmates' eternal bliss finally die out? Maybe my sister was just trying to prove to herself that she could make a relationship work as long as I could? (Something that would have been matched a couple of months ago... when she finally was with my ex for the same time I was. Personally, I think she was sick of the kids, and he is sick of the tweak (something I heard she WON'T give up).... and although he is still a tweaker... hopefully this will be the road to recovery.
Now for all you moms (or dads) out there that is reading this now going "OH MY GOD! You send your kids with a meth addict?" Let me be clear that I am not happy about this arrangement... but the court said until I had solid proof (which I wasn't allowed to get because I was just the bitter bitch ex), that I couldn't withhold visitation from him. The psychologist also said that denying them visitation would be worse than exposing them to whatever evils might be over there. Yeaaaaaaaaahhhh... and this person has a degree?? I think THEY were the ones smoking crack!
Anyway back to my story...
I am hoping that he isn't just blowing smoke up my ass to try to make me think he isn't still with my whore sister... but something is telling me that he isn't.... he was all giddy on the phone with this new girl... and I haven't saw him like that for a long time.
Ahhhhhhhh, I always thought that I didn't need to seek revenge, because what comes around goes around... and eventually my sister would get what is coming to her. She is a homewrecker, and liar, a thief, and a horrible sister. She broke up my family just for a piece of ass... but if you ask her, it never happened. Don't mind that my dad caught him naked at my sister's house at 4am, or the fact that I saw them hugging at the grocery store... or even the fact that Reagan asked me if Daddy and her aunt were "boyfriend and girlfriend" because they sleep in the same bed at night. Not to mention his best friend ratted him out... and a bunch of his old co-workers as well. And *I* am the delusional one?!?!? Karma's a bitch... and she finally got hers. I hope she rots in a hell worse than she can ever imagine. She deserves every second of it.
I, on the otherhand... am on cloud nine at the thoughts that my sister could actually be miserable. I know that sounds heartless and cruel... but I guess I am gonna be selfish for a little while, and say that I don't really care. What she did can not ever be forgot... and although it would be easier to get over her tearing my family apart (which I did when I found my wonderful husband and got married to him)... I cannot forget the fact that she continually lied to me about it for 5 years. I cannot and will not put up with a liar. After I finally got over the fact that I didn't need my sister in my life, I have been so much more at ease with this whole situation. Sisters or not... I don't need someone in my life who treats me like that. I am a strong woman, and I deserve to be loved and treated with respect. Something I doubt my sister will ever do. She is so wrapped up in her own delusional world to realize the havoc she has caused and the ruins she has created. Let her wallow in it for awhile. Finally, I am the one who is happy... and she is the one who left in the shadows. It feels so good to close that chapter of my life.
Okay, I will get real... sorry, 'bout that.
I think my sister and my ex finally broke up. He is finally getting his own apartment (he was taking my kiddos over to my sister's every weekened when he had them). From what the kids say, my sister and my ex fight ALL OF THE TIME.... and now I have heard him talking of another girl he met at his new job. Could it be? Did the soulmates' eternal bliss finally die out? Maybe my sister was just trying to prove to herself that she could make a relationship work as long as I could? (Something that would have been matched a couple of months ago... when she finally was with my ex for the same time I was. Personally, I think she was sick of the kids, and he is sick of the tweak (something I heard she WON'T give up).... and although he is still a tweaker... hopefully this will be the road to recovery.
Now for all you moms (or dads) out there that is reading this now going "OH MY GOD! You send your kids with a meth addict?" Let me be clear that I am not happy about this arrangement... but the court said until I had solid proof (which I wasn't allowed to get because I was just the bitter bitch ex), that I couldn't withhold visitation from him. The psychologist also said that denying them visitation would be worse than exposing them to whatever evils might be over there. Yeaaaaaaaaahhhh... and this person has a degree?? I think THEY were the ones smoking crack!
Anyway back to my story...
I am hoping that he isn't just blowing smoke up my ass to try to make me think he isn't still with my whore sister... but something is telling me that he isn't.... he was all giddy on the phone with this new girl... and I haven't saw him like that for a long time.
Ahhhhhhhh, I always thought that I didn't need to seek revenge, because what comes around goes around... and eventually my sister would get what is coming to her. She is a homewrecker, and liar, a thief, and a horrible sister. She broke up my family just for a piece of ass... but if you ask her, it never happened. Don't mind that my dad caught him naked at my sister's house at 4am, or the fact that I saw them hugging at the grocery store... or even the fact that Reagan asked me if Daddy and her aunt were "boyfriend and girlfriend" because they sleep in the same bed at night. Not to mention his best friend ratted him out... and a bunch of his old co-workers as well. And *I* am the delusional one?!?!? Karma's a bitch... and she finally got hers. I hope she rots in a hell worse than she can ever imagine. She deserves every second of it.
I, on the otherhand... am on cloud nine at the thoughts that my sister could actually be miserable. I know that sounds heartless and cruel... but I guess I am gonna be selfish for a little while, and say that I don't really care. What she did can not ever be forgot... and although it would be easier to get over her tearing my family apart (which I did when I found my wonderful husband and got married to him)... I cannot forget the fact that she continually lied to me about it for 5 years. I cannot and will not put up with a liar. After I finally got over the fact that I didn't need my sister in my life, I have been so much more at ease with this whole situation. Sisters or not... I don't need someone in my life who treats me like that. I am a strong woman, and I deserve to be loved and treated with respect. Something I doubt my sister will ever do. She is so wrapped up in her own delusional world to realize the havoc she has caused and the ruins she has created. Let her wallow in it for awhile. Finally, I am the one who is happy... and she is the one who left in the shadows. It feels so good to close that chapter of my life.
1 Comments:
At 1:21 AM, Dawne said…
LOL! OMG Danger! This is wonderful! Yep - she is getting what she totally deserves now! I just hope he gets payback real soon too! I also hope that the police arrest him for his meth use - so you can finally get the visitation rights taken away from him and you can protect your children from his insanity!
Hugs, Dawne
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